Do you know how to keep a woman happy? I mean truly happy. Keeping a woman happy is common sense stuff, but many men get this all wrong.
#1- Confidence is king
Confidence is more attractive to a woman than money or good looks. Think about it. How often do you see an ugly guy with a beautiful woman? It’s pretty common. To make your woman happy, be yourself and be confident. You are good enough for her regardless of your financial status or physical attributes.
#2- Focus on the little things
Women keep score differently than men. In a woman’s eyes, you earn points regardless of how big something you do is. Buying her an expensive diamond necklace earns you no more points than calling her just to say you love her. If you want to keep a woman happy, do little things for her consistently rather than doing a big thing every once in a while.
#3- She needs appreciation
More than anything in a relationship, a woman needs to feel appreciated to be happy. Appreciation is even more important than chocolate or love in a woman’s eyes. Let her know you value all the little things she does for you like doing your laundry, fixing dinner, or leaving you cute notes.
#4- Give her the attention she deserves
When you’re with her, avoid staring at other women. Women constantly compare themselves to other women, and when you stare at other women when she’s around, you will make her feel as though she’s not good enough. You’re a man and you’re going to look. It’s part of your core being, but be conscious of it when she’s around and give her your full attention if you want to keep her happy.
#5- Laughter will win her heart
If you want to know how to keep a woman happy, make her laugh. Just because you’re a man doesn’t mean you can’t be cute, silly, or even a little childish if it brings a smile to her face. You know the things that make her laugh so use them.
#6- Do something she loves even if you don’t
Maybe your girlfriend likes to ski or dance and you don’t. Make an effort to go with her sometimes even if you don’t enjoy it that much. Do it for her because you love her. This doesn’t mean you have to do everything she loves all the time, but show an interest in her passions. She’ll love you for it.
#7- Don’t get sloppy
Guys have a tendency to put a lot of effort into getting the girl, but once they have her they get sloppy. They stop doing the little things. They stop caring about their appearance. They stop appreciating her and start taking her for granted. If you want to keep a woman happy, don’t get sloppy. You can lose her in an instant.
#8- Get to know her family and friends
Women for the most part are social creatures. They rely on their friends and family to validate the choices they make in life. They want their boyfriends and husbands to have a relationship with their family and friends. Learning how to keep a woman happy will require making an effort to show an interest in your girl’s sphere of influence.
#9- Be considerate of her feelings
Women are more emotional than men. It’s not their fault. It just comes with being a woman. When you show her you understand this and are sensitive to her moods and don’t get upset or over-react, she’ll do everything she can to keep you.
#10- Spice it up
It’s natural for a relationship to lose some of its excitement over time. However, if you feel things getting stale, try something new. maybe taking a class together to learn how to dance or do yoga. Do something neither of you have ever done, and do it together.
I love you means that I accept you for the person you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I do not expect you to be perfect. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means when you’re in a bad mood I won’t leave you and try to make you better. It means loving you through all your emotions not just when you’re fun to be with. It means that I could know your deepest secrets and not judge you for them. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love you enough not to let go. It means through all our fights, we will find a way to resolve it, and learn from it.
Throwing the word I LOVE you out.
Love a very strong a powerful word, people just love to throw out and abuse the meaning of love. Love should be only used when you really do mean it with that special someone. A strong emotional feeling and affection toward someone that means more than anything to you. Someone you have feelings for and want to spend your time with always 24/7 if you could. A feeling that you will only have for one person and no one else. Always thinking about them every night thinking what their doing and just wanting that feeling you have when your with them. Don’t just abuse the 3 meaningful words I LOVE YOU. Say it like you mean.
When you’re in a relationship, don’t bring up the past. Don’t bring up the tears and the memories of pain and struggle. Don’t bring up her flaws and mistakes. Don’t remind her of how bad she’s messed up just to prove a point. That’s not how a relationship works. You forgive and forget. You forget the past, and you live in the present, maybe even think about the future. You live in the now, without regrets. Realize that she’s human too. We all make our mistakes every once in a while. She’s not as perfect as you imagine her to be. She’s trying, bro. She’s trying hard to be that girl, but hey, who can live up to your standards? Don’t bring up her past, because well, that’s exactly what it is: passed. It’s behind her; it’s behind both of you. Instead of wondering how she can improve, think about how you can improve. How can you be as perfect as possible for her?
One day, sooner or later, you’ll understand that I’m truly different, that I’m the person you”ll never find again. You should not want me out of your life. Please stop pushing me away when all I wanted, is support, care and love you every heart-beat I have. You know it, but you’re blinded by your thoughts. People say love blinds you, totally the opposite. It just makes you see exactly all you need to see.
I want those times together. Where you and I lay on bed and take a nap, so close together as you hold my hand and cuddle me with your warm hug and make me feel safe. I want to feel your scent, hear you snore and hear every beat of your heart as you held me closer. Then, I want to wake up while you`re still asleep, looking at you and then remembering how lucky I am to have someone like you in my life. I just wanted to be with you always and forever.
I could search an entire dictionary and not find the words to describe how wonderful you are. I could say a thousand cheesy lines, and never truly express how much you mean to me. I could sing you ten thousand songs, but never find the melody that my heart plays when I’m with you. I could find ten thousand four leaf clovers, and still not have enough luck to ever find someone half as perfect as you. I could search every art museum, but never find anything as beautiful as you are. I could smile until my cheeks ache, but never show you how happy I am to be with you. I guess I’m trying to say, I love you & I don’t want you to leave me.
I want a moment like this.
It doesn’t even have to be a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship. It could simply just be two bestfriends hanging out and enjoy eachothers company. I want a moment like this. Just having good vibes and being able to enjoy by talking about random stuff. Being able to joke around and act silly, but as the conversation prolongs you both begin to become comfortable with eachother and open up. Thus being comfortable to tell eachother what’s on their mind. Where we don’t need to be under the influence of alcohol or drugs to have fun. It’s hard to get moments like these now a days. That’s why every chance I get, I cherish it.
January 24th, 2011 - April 11th, 2012 ♡ you’ll always be ‘my love’.
